You know, parents always used to say that right before they spanked their kids. And kids always used to say, "Yeah right!" I always said that. How on earth could spanking your child hurt the parent more than it hurts the kid? Well, now I know that discipline, in any form, does hurt the parent more than the child (well, maybe not more, sometimes it's just about as much.... ok, sometimes it doesn't hurt at all, but it does make me feel a little bad at times) because as a parent, I hate seeing my kid hurt, even though it's necessary. We've been really working on the "logical, natural consequences" stuff lately because we found out that yelling at your kids just doesn't work. Believe me, I've tried. Unfortunately, I still yell. However, it still doesn't work. But natural consequences does. It just doesn't have that cathartic effect that yelling has. Anyhow, we were talking about natural consequences. The other day, poor Bubba had a really difficult lesson in natural consequences. See, we were going to Costco and I told the kids they could bring their money and buy something. Duh-duh had about $13 and Missy Lou had about the same. They could probably buy something. Bubba had about $4. Bubba isn't very good with money. The other day, he sat by the Crayon box and just broke Crayons. For no good reason. He just sat there and broke Crayons. In half. New Crayons. OK, I did yell just a little, but then I told him he had to pay me for the Crayons he broke. Five cents a crayon. And then, a couple weeks ago he'd gone to Walmart with Hubby and begged to bring his money. He bought some cheap plastic toy for $6 that was broken that very afternoon. So, anyhow, he didn't have much money to bring to Costco. And he couldn't buy anything because there aren't many cheap things in Costco. The other two both bought some books with their money. I felt really bad for Bubba because he was as jealous as all get out, but... natural consequences. You have to be wise with your money. Today Duh-duh has natural consequences. The kids can't watch tv or play on the computer until their chores are done. I'd been on Duh-duh to get his laundry folded but he kept blowing me off. Until about 15 minutes before "Dinosaur Train" was on. The he goes to the laundry room and realizes that he hadn't even dried his laundry, so he certainly couldn't fold it. He's outside playing with the dog right now, waiting for his laundry to dry so hopefully he can fold it before time runs out. I feel bad for him, but.... natural consequences.